Saturday, April 5, 2014

JESUS GIVES US THREE REASONS WHY WE DON'T NEED TO WORRY OR BE FEARFUL.


WORRY DENIES THE FATHER’S CARE

 Jesus understood our natural tendency to become worried so He taught us the proper way to respond to it. In Matthew 6:25-34, He reveals to us why we don’t need to worry. He assures us that if He cares for the least of His creation—the birds of the air and the flowers of the field—He will surely care for us as we are more important to Him than these.

Jesus gives us three key reasons why we don’t have to worry or be fearful.


“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? (Matthew 6:25-26)

The King James Version uses “thought” to translate the Greek, but the context makes it clear that Jesus was discussing anxious thought or worry.

In New Testament times, the word “worry” meant having a fretful devotion to something. More than a mild concern, worry refers to a compelling anxiety, a concern that overwhelms us and disrupts our lives.

When we learn to trust Jesus to meet our daily needs, we conquer the pattern of worrying. When we learn to stop worrying about the basics of life, such as food, clothing, and shelter, we’ll conquer the other fears that we face.

Where did the tendency to worry originate?


Humans come into this world with basic needs. If those needs are met appropriately, people will grow and thrive as their Creator intended. Man’s Creator is God, and God had a plan from the beginning to meet people’s needs.

God made humanity for His own good pleasure—to enjoy relationship with him. God also made men and women “in need.” This need was intentional, for God wanted people to have a need, or desire for Him, as He did for them.

People need each other—that’s what relationship is. God couldn’t have a personal relationship with the people He created, if they had no need of relationship with Him in return.

God is infinitely creative and diverse, and in that diversity He sought the give and take that relationship with people requires. What does that mean for God? He created us with the capacity to think, reason, create, contemplate, and work as He does. We have the ability to express emotion and to love Him in return for loving us first. This is the heart of relationship.

People need God the way a newborn needs its mother. If a newborn’s needs are not met, it will fail to thrive and may even die.

Although adults have the capability to care for themselves within limits, they don’t have the ability to produce without God first providing the raw materials. We can grow our own food, but we can’t create the seed.  God made the first seed and it’s through His creative hand that we are able to produce food from these seeds.

We weren’t around when God made the sun, water, and soil that provides for the plant’s nourishment. So even in the smallest of details, God did His part first, by supplying what we would need to sustain life. This is the most fundamental way in which God meets people’s need.

God provided the elements needed to make our clothing, the seedlings for trees to grow that provide us with shelter and fire for warmth. We don’t have the ability to make the raw materials needed for our very survival, although we have the ability to take what God has supplied and use it for our good.

Many people are ungrateful to God because they don’t consider how He meets our most basic needs for food, clothing, and shelter. Human life is short and our life is more than getting our basic needs met. We must ask ourselves how we came into existence and for what reason. God reveals Himself in our everyday lives as we contemplate our being.

When our minds and hearts are closed to God, we don’t grasp the concept of a personal God who delights in having an intimate relationship with us. We worry because we subconsciously know that we don’t have the ability to create everything we need to sustain life, and this makes us feel vulnerable and helpless. Our neediness causes us to worry and be anxious.

When we believe we won’t get our physical and emotional needs met, we worry. If worry continues long enough, it turns into anxiety and panic attacks. Eventually emotional disturbances such as depression, addictions, strongholds, and ultimately psychosis may emerge.

This is why Jesus taught so frequently on the topic of worry and why He continually stressed “fear not.” God has gifted us with our very own internal awareness of Him–(through our conscience and through His creation). He tells us not to worry about our basic human needs because for Him—they’re the “givens.” It should be a “given” that fathers take care of their children. (I know that not all earthly fathers properly take care for their offspring, but that was not God’s original intent for people. This disorder came as a result of being separated from the Father and because people choose to go against His “perfect” will for their lives.)

Our needs make up what we call our “human givens.” God meets our needs, or our givens, when we acknowledge Him and the place He desires to have in our life. He becomes our Heavenly Father and meets our most basic needs when we ask His Son, Jesus, to come into our heart and change us.

God’s Word tells us that our basic need of food, clothing, and shelter are so fundamental, in fact, that if we would get to know our Heavenly Father we wouldn’t spend any time worrying about these things. In other words, this concept is so elementary to the Christian faith, that there’s no need to worry about them.
When people understand, and then choose to believe that their Heavenly Father will take good care of them, they won’t become insecure, anxious, depressed, or inclined towards escapism through addiction. God is a good God who loves His children unconditionally and He delights in caring for them. Beyond basic needs though, God wants us to know that He created us for so much more. He created us for spiritual intimacy, companionship, and for significance.

Except taken from my newest book "DON'T BE A WORRY WART - Accept God's Peace and Change Your Life."  Find it at Amazon/Kindle.   Follow my link: http://www.amazon.com/Lilliet-Garrison/e/B004H28MCU.

Tuesday, March 25, 2014

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Wednesday, February 5, 2014

ORGANIZATIONAL HELP FOR WRITING NOVELS

I found this information on (ALLi, Self-Publishing Advice Blog) and thought it might be helpful to those who want to write novels. If you're just starting out, perhaps this author's "snowflake" method may prove to be beneficial. I don't know him personally, but found his points helpful.

Writing: How To Use the Snowflake Technique to Write A Novel

Headshot of the author Richard DenningBritish historical novelist Richard Denning explains the very popular Snowflake Method for planning and writing novels, illustrated by examples from one of his seven YA (young adult) novels, The Last Seal.
As a a self-published author of historical fiction and historical fantasy, I use the Snowflake Method to help me write novels.  It was invented by Randy Ingermanson, the multiple-award-winning US novelist and teacher of writing crafts.

simple snowflake graphicWhy Use the Snowflake Method?

The idea of the Snowflake Method is that, if it is done well, you can avoid major plot issues requiring major rewrites because you already have done that work. Furthermore you should spend less time staring at a blank page. You wrench the story idea out of your head at the start. Once you have built the snowflake it makes the writing easier. This does not mean you lose creativity. You have to be creative at the start as you make the snowflake. As you go along you often find new ideas pop up – indeed these can often be stimulated more because you already know the direction the novel is going and so your flakes of inspiration can link in better.

How To Use The Snowflake Method

I summarise the main steps here, using my YA historical novel The Last Seal as an example:
STEP 1 ONE SENTENCE SUMMARY
Write a one-sentence summary of your novel. This sentence could become the hook that will sell your book. A good sentence is shorter rather than longer – ideally fewer than 15 words. It should not contain character names. It is better to say “a mercenary time travelling adventurer" than “Septimus Mason". This sentence should aim to tie together the big picture of the book with the personal picture of the main character. We should learn which character has the most to lose in this story and what he or she wants to gain. Here's a one sentence summary of my YA novel, The Last Seal:
“London 1666: a schoolboy and a thief brave the perils of the Great Fire to prevent an even more terrible catastrophe!”
STEP 2 ONE PARAGRAPH PLOT 
You now need to expand that sentence to a full paragraph describing the background, the major disasters, and the ending of the novel.
It is a good idea to think about the a story as "three disasters plus an ending". Each of the disasters takes a quarter of the book to develop and the ending takes the final quarter. If you are approaching publishers you can also use this paragraph in your proposal. Or alternatively if you self-publish this could easily become the back cover blurb. Ideally, your paragraph will have about five sentences: one sentence to give me the backdrop and story setup, one sentence each for your three disasters, then one more sentence to tell the ending. Here's my one-paragraph plot for The Last Seal:
"In September 1666 a schoolboy playing truant and a local thief blunder into a struggle between rival secret societies. They discover that the Liberati serve a powerful demon which was locked under London by their opponents the Praesidum who created magical seals round the city which now the Liberati aim to destroy when they start the fire at Pudding Lane. As the fire spreads, the two youths and the Praesidum must evade the deadly Liberati as they try to locate the remaining seals. They discover that the location of the final seal is given on a secret key hidden somewhere in the city. A desperate race ensues to find the key, locate the final seal and prevent the demon being freed."
STEP 3 DEVELOP CHARACTERS
Cover of The Last Seal by Richard DenningPlots are all very good but the book is going to need compelling characters. So you need something similar for the storylines of each of your characters. For each of your major characters, we need this information:
  • The character's name
  • A one-sentence summary of the character's storyline
  • The character's goal (what does he/she want?)
  • The character's conflict (what prevents him/her from reaching this goal?)
  • The character's epiphany (what will he/she learn, how will he/she change? A one-paragraph summary of the character's storyline
I developed this profile for my character Freya in The Last Seal:
  • Summary: Cheerful , cheeky but , selfish young thief finds a purpose through perilous adventure.
  • Goal: To survive each day and get as much as she can. To gain wealth, avoid responsibility
  • Obstacles: Uneducated, orphan gutter snipe with no prospects
  • Epiphany: There are things more important than self, higher purposes which are worth risking self for
  • Synopsis of character story line: Freya scrapes a living thieving and pick-pocketing. One day she is caught red handed and shifts the blame on Benjamin a school boy playing truant who runs with her to escape capture right into an encounter with agents of the Liberati who threaten them both. Escaping with Ben they encountering the Praesidum. Initially she refuses to help the Praesidum unless she gains a reward but gradually comes to realise that the Liberati must be opposed and in so doing her shallow existence gains meaning. Helps reforms the Praesidum at the end and resolves to continue its mission.
STEP 4 PLOT SUMMARY
The snow flake grows. You now expand the one paragraph summary of the plot. Each sentence expands into a full paragraph. All but the last paragraph should end in a disaster. The final paragraph should tell how the book ends. So you now have maybe a full sheet with your plot on.
STEP 5  CHARACTER CHARTS
Take your character synopsis and now expand your character descriptions into full-fledged character charts. Detail everything there is to know about each character, such as birthdate, description, history, motivation, goals, etc.
STEP 6 EXPAND THE PLOT SYNOPSIS
By now, you have a solid story and several story-threads, one for each character. Now expand the one-page plot synopsis of the novel to a four-page synopsis. Basically, you will again be expanding each paragraph from step (4) into a full page. Take that four-page synopsis and make a list of all the scenes that you'll need to turn the story into a novel. Make a list of each scene throughout the whole books and organise them into chapters. Here's how I did it for The Last Seal:
Table showing scene development using the snowflake technique
At this point I open up Word and slap in all those scenes. Then I just sit down and start pounding out the real first draft of the novel. If I follow this process well (and I confess I don’t always manage to be quite so elaborate), I am often astounded at how fast the story flies out of my fingers at this stage.
  • I KNOW the story
  • I KNOW the characters
  • I KNOW the scenes
  • I can just get writing!
Seat of pants writers may not like this approach but I find I need the framework to get me started.
Randy Ingermanson offers more information about his Snowflake Method and much more writing advice at his excellent website, www.advancedfictionwriting. com.

Friday, January 17, 2014

BOOK REVIEW OF "A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE...Growing Spiritually Mature in an Immature World" by Lilliet Garrison - reviewed by Readers' Favorite Reviews

Reviewed by Mamta Madhavan for Readers' Favorite

A Woman of Substance: Growing Spiritually Mature in an Immature World by Lilliet Garrison is a motivating book which reiterates our faith in God. The world we are living in is rampant with strife and confusion. The book gives readers tips on how to grow towards spirituality and discover what God has willed for each one of us, to set goals in life and become confident and purposeful. The book tells readers to surrender to God and seek a meaningful existence away from the emotional drama. The book serves as a guide to those who are looking for empowerment in their lives.

The current trend in society is to fall into self-defeating behavior, negative thinking patterns, and low self-esteem that leads to psychological problems. The book speaks about channeling our energies and thoughts in God's direction to end up being more confident. And by confidence, it means the correct type of confidence. It also gives us meaningful quotes from the scriptures. The book stresses the importance of God throughout and it is an inspiring read during good times and bad times. It is a book that will help us reflect about ourselves and our relationship with God.

The book is written with a lot of clarity. The author tells us how the lives of transformed people are blessed with light and how they have the power of the Holy Spirit. The book stresses the topics covered in the Bible. The simple prayer in the end is a gift to readers.

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